Blog by Sumana Harihareswara, Changeset founder

25 Nov 2002, 22:46 p.m.

Hiya, there, sister. Yeah, it really stinks being the…

Hi, reader. I wrote this in 2002 and it's now more than five years old. So it may be very out of date; the world, and I, have changed a lot since I wrote it! I'm keeping this up for historical archive purposes, but the me of today may 100% disagree with what I said then. I rarely edit posts after publishing them, but if I do, I usually leave a note in italics to mark the edit and the reason. If this post is particularly offensive or breaches someone's privacy, please contact me.

Hiya, there, sister. Yeah, it really stinks being the dry run, the teaching partner. At least one friend of mine was not comforted after a breakup by the consolation, "it was a learning experience"; sometimes you want to keep being in love, and not learn anything at all.

On the other hand, someday you may be that other girl!